Why I do not like the term ‘Twin Flames’

I despise the word twin flame simply because it has been misused. It has been misused, manipulated and completely bastardized by the so-called new age spiritual community that has a complete lack of understanding of what this actually is. They understand that this is some kind of higher level divine relationship but then they just start seemingly making stuff up or are just regurgitating what is already out there and not really trying to find appropriate ways to gain real guidance on this kind of stuff. How I do this is I tune into my own higher self. I don't go through any intermediaries or anything like that. We all have a direct connection through our own higher selves directly to source, and when you tune into your own higher self you're not going through intermediaries. You're not just talking to whoever or whatever that's out there and not knowing where this information is coming from. Everything is vetted by my own higher self. It is my own energy, my own frequency and nothing can tamper with that. Anyone can connect to their own divinity to do this, I am not, in any way, trying to show myself as some guru or anything. We are all equal and therefore all equally just as powerful. No one has ever needed an intermediary to connect to the divine, not ever. Do not ever put anyone on any kind of pedestal, understand your own personal power. I am putting this information out there as I feel guided to, but also as it just plain bothers me that so many people are manipulated into believing so much crap that’s out there. Remember to ALWAYS use your own discernment when looking at any of this stuff. So going forward I will not be using the word twin flame. I will be using the term divine counterpart or divine counterparts. 

Difference between Divine Counterparts and Soul Mates

A soulmate is a soul that you are familiar with. So typically with soulmates you've incarnated with them in several lifetimes before and you will probably incarnate with them in future lifetimes. They're a familiar soul that you know, they can be like your bestie. They feel familiar to you. They can in fact be romantic partnerships. There could even be soul contracts where there is a romantic partnership with someone who is a soul mate for a period of time or to help you learn lessons or things like that. Of course these can also be friendships as well as work partnerships, family, those kinds of things. These are the souls that we chose to incarnate with us to help us for whatever reason in that lifetime. There could also be situations in which we didn't decide to meet before incarnating but while incarnating we ended up just deciding to meet up physically anyway because we have something that the other needed or the other person needs help with something. I always use the analogy that this physical reality is much like a video game and of course when you're playing the video game, and the character in the game doesn't necessarily know all of the other players but outside of the game you’re playing the game with your friends and your friend is playing this other character at the other part of the game and if you need something they come and meet up, it’s that kind of a thing. 

How this differs from divine counterparts is that divine counterparts are a higher level soul connection. You are individuals but you are also one. The best way that I could describe this is like quantum entanglement. You are literally the same frequency so you are literally one but you are also individual souls at the same time. You are tied together almost like your own mini collective or your own mini collective consciousness. You are merged together in a very high vibration of true unconditional love. Which of course makes you very powerful when coming back together because it's almost like double power when you merge back together from this physical level. So this is not your typical soulmate relationship, this is something where you always have this connection whether you see them physically or not, you're always connected. You can feel them and they can feel you, that connection is always there no matter what.

What a Divine Counterpart is NOT

A divine counterpart is not a traditional relationship label. Divine counterparts are here to basically break free from those old paradigm relationship templates. Those old relationship styles are not at all what this is in any way. Divine counterparts are here to break free, to help heal and to help lift up and elevate away from those old things. In order to do that you need to be something complete and uniquely different to show what unconditional love truly is because we lack that understanding very much so on this planet. 

I will also say here that MOST (not all) people who are divine counterparts have not actually met the other physical person because initially what happens is when you are a divine counterpart you realize that through an awakening process. Your higher self will guide you through this awakening process for you to realize this on your own. No one can forcefully awaken you, no one can just activate you or anything like that. This is a divine process which happens on your own and which will happen first before any physical encounter will ever occur. There’s an aspect of what people call separation, and we'll get into that later on, but  you awaken first to get you aligned on the right path that you're meant to be on for this lifetime and understanding who you are, what you're here for, etc. That is also one other major difference between soul mates and divine counterparts. 

This also is not a trauma bond or any kind of abusive relationship. This is meant to be a high vibrational unconditional love type of relationship. There is healing that does occur before you come together if you have had those types of situations but this is not what this relationship is at all meant to be. There are some people that have taken these labels and they have applied it to themselves to create an excuse to remain in a toxic or abusive situation that they think will change. However they're basically deluding themselves or gaslighting themselves into staying into a toxic relationship by applying a label that they saw somewhere on the internet instead of actually getting the help they need to get out of it. I'm going to remind you again most people that are divine counterparts have not physically met each other. 

Something that is coming through strongly is that no one who really is a divine counterpart is physically together with their person yet, no one, whether they have met or not. (as of March 2026). So if you see anyone online or anything like that that says ‘oh this is my my twin flame’ or ‘my divine counterpart’ I'm sorry, but no. The reason for this is basically twofold. One, there are some people that have had their awakening and they have met the other person (but are not together) but this is very few that this has happened to. In this instance there were issues with the other ‘less awakened’ one. So what happens generally is the awakened one awakens and starts their process which then affects the other because remember this quantum entanglement thing, you feel them and they feel you. What I get a sense of is there have been issues in some cases from that person at the human level where they weren't quite sure of what they were feeling and not understanding and were therefore questioning it and hesitating on certain things. So it was slowing things down so to speak and there was more work that needed to be done. However the largest reason as to why people haven't come together is due to basically just what has been happening in the past five years now regarding the pandemic, etc. That has caused a major issue as it has put people in places where they weren't supposed to be or meant to be and it has caused things that were supposed to happen not to happen and vice-versa due to lockdowns, etc. It basically threw a giant wrench into the whole thing and put it on pause for quite a long time because now there's a lot of things that now need to be healed, there are things that were healed beforehand that now need to be healed again and situations and things that now need to be brought back into place. However the good news is this is happening at a very rapid pace this time than it was before in order to get things realigned again on a new path. Just because shit happens doesn't mean your higher self is just going to drop you on your ass and leave you, it usually means to re-evaluate the situation and reroute like a GPS. Your higher self will then guide you on the next path or the next exit to take to get to your destination.

I also touched on previously that divine counterparts are not a platonic relationship or friendship and they're also not family. Remember, you chose to incarnate in specific bodies in specific ways to have specific experiences to be able to do this in this lifetime. You’re not going to incarnate as family to do this, that is just gross because this is meant to be a deeply sensual, unconditional loving sexual type of romantic relationship, but not at all what we understand romantic relationships to be based on what we know and understand from our current societies, cultures, etc. We're meant to break free of all of that. This is something that is coming down from a much higher level to bring in the love but ultimately to lift everyone up to that newer level. We've incarnated here from that higher level suspended within this physical 3D reality to bring the love, yes, but also to help to lift everyone up through that to the higher levels. It’s not necessarily bringing it down as it is more so of a lifting up.

Are Divine Counterparts Superior?

The answer, to put simply, is no. I just want to say that no one is superior in any way. If anyone in any spiritual community or any spiritual guru or anything like that says that you must bow down to them, or that they're superior, or that you must listen to them and they only have whatever and blah blah blah blah blah, run. Anybody that does this legitimately is going to see you as an equal. They're going to want to try to help you. They're going to try to want to lift you up to the same level that they are, and actually try to help you.

That brings me to my next point here, is that the analogy that was given to me when this topic has come up, because I've asked this myself, I've heard other people ask this, talk about this, and the answer I was given was that it's like a teacher-student relationship. The teacher has the experience, the knowledge, the know-how. They've gone through the training. They've gone through all this stuff. They've gone through whatever to be at a certain level of understanding in whatever topic that they're teaching or that they know of. The student is not at that level, but wants to reach that level. The student is interested in the same topic that the teacher is. They want to learn. They want to go through and have all the experiences, have all that stuff to get to that same level. Eventually, at some point, the teacher and the student will be at the same level. Does that make the teacher better than the student? Does it make the student less than the teacher? No, because at one point that teacher was at the very same spot as that student.

Just because that teacher, and they're reminding me of something now, but I'll get to that, just because that teacher has a certain knowledge or area of understanding, doesn't mean that they're better than someone that doesn't. And to that point in what they were reminding me of is that that student may actually have certain knowledge that that teacher does not have, and they're reminding me of something else as well that we'll get to in a minute.

So that student could have knowledge of something, some other area of life, that that teacher does not have or does not have expertise or experience in. In essence, they also balance each other out, as in, the teacher knows one thing that the student needs, the student may know something that the teacher needs. Now, how does this relate to divine counterparts? Well, in essence, when we talk about ascension, when we talk about reaching 5D and all of that, the divine counterparts that are here to help with that have experience with that. They've been there before. They understand 5D. They understand those higher levels of vibration. They've already had connections there. They've done this kind of thing. They've lived in these higher levels, etc. They’ve incarnated as different beings, whatever, on those kinds of levels. So because of what has happened on this planet, they have come here to help because they have experience with ascension. They have experience with these higher level connections. They have experience with helping to lift up to that level.

Divine counterparts will do the healing on themselves. They'll understand this. They'll work through a lot of these things to get to a certain point, a certain level, and then help to lift everybody up alongside them. The thing is, and what I'm being reminded of, is they have the experience on a soul level, because they've done stuff like this before, to be able to do this kind of thing. They're here to assist. They're here to heal. They're here to help. They're not here to necessarily bring that love down to earth. They're here to lift up. They're here to be incarnated in a 3D body, but still have those higher level connections to 5D, to those higher realms, in order to almost, in a way, be suspended within this physical 3D reality. Through that, in essence, they retain that 5D, those higher connections, while still existing within this 3D physical reality. This is what it means to be multidimensional. That gives them that ability to still express that 5D, to still be in that level, but also use that as a tool to help to lift other people up to that higher level. This is because  everyone is going to be at that higher level when all of this is said and done. That's the end goal here, is to lift up to that higher vibration of love, to lift up to those higher vibrations, and get out of the negative, fear-based, divisiveness, all of this crap, to get out of that and move to a much higher level.

Divine counterparts do this ascension process by helping to lift up. It's not necessarily bringing it down here. We've incarnated into this lower place and then healed to bring back those higher level connections or re-open those connections to maintain that kind of suspension in this reality that I talked about, in order to help everybody to lift up.That is the purpose. That is why the divine counterparts are like the teacher, because they have the experience in this certain area to help people to achieve that. They've done this before, incarnated on other planets, other lifetimes. Yes, there are a lot of people that have had past lives on other planets, these are what some would call starseeds and the divine counterparts that are here to help at this time are in fact also starseeds. 

Then there's those that have had most of their lives on earth or they are earth souls. Now, here's what I was reminded of before. Those earth souls have certain experiences that divine counterparts don't have, because they've put up with the fucking hell that has existed on this planet for so long, that they actually have a better understanding and know-how on how to deal with that than someone who actually does come from a higher level of vibration. So there are things that they can help divine counterparts with, help to understand how to survive on this level, in this reality. What I'm being reminded of as well is that divine counterparts and the other star seeds too have had a lot of other past lives on earth prior to this incarnation to learn about earth, to understand what it's like, to understand and learn about life here. So that when we reach this lifetime, we're able to escape out of karma, which in this essence just means experience or learning experiences, because we're here to be in that higher level to teach, to help lift up and to heal. However, we also have learned the know-how from other human souls that we have incarnated with and have had past lives with to help and understand what life is like on earth to help us to be able to do our job now. 

So to answer again, are divine counterparts superior? No. Fuck no. No one is superior. We all have different unique experiences. We all have different unique abilities and understandings. But the thing is we're also all here to help each other. Just because someone is different does not mean that they are better or less than somebody else. That is a concept that we need to learn to get rid of from our minds and from our consciousness. Different does not mean greater than or less than. Different simply means different. Different just means you're different. And that's totally fine. Because having a different perspective than somebody else is sometimes what's needed. This is because both of your unique perspectives can work together to actually create a solution or to cause something to happen. This is because one person knows how to do one thing and the other person knows how to do that other aspect of those things. Maybe you don't like to do what the other person does or whatever. So you do your own thing of what you're good at, but you work together at it and you can achieve great things with that. The differences are important. Besides, if we were all the same, it would just be boring anyway. 

Do LGBTQ+ Divine Counterparts Exist? What about Divine Masculine & Divine Feminine?

The answer to do they exist is of course, yes, because this is about unconditional love. Yes, there's heterosexual couples, there's gay couples, lesbian couples, bisexual couples and transgender couples. There's confusion surrounding this because a lot of people throw around the terms divine masculine and divine feminine. How does this work for LGBTQ+ couples? Remember how I talked about how divine counterparts are basically the same in my quantum entanglement explanation? Well, you're two but you're also one. So as the one, there is one that is feminine and there's one that is masculine. As the two when you break down into your individuality you also still have both divine masculine and divine feminine energy within you as every soul does. 

Also, let me explicitly state here, that this is an ENERGY DYNAMIC, it does not directly correlate to being PHYSICALLY masculine or feminine, one is energetic the other is physical. Yes the physical is a representation of what exists energetically but you don’t have to be energetically the same in order to incarnate into that specific expression. Every person that is incarnated has both divine masculine and divine feminine energy within them. Your polarity only stems from the fact of this merge or this quantum entanglement as you exist in that higher ‘one’ together or together as one. So you have a polarity or leaning. 

This next point is something that has come through strongly in guidance with me: do you really think that if you have this energetic polarity of feminine for example that you're only going to ever incarnate as just a heterosexual woman? Do you really think that? There’s also the fact that you have lived lives on other planets in other races that maybe have more than just two physical genders or that there's multiple gender expressions. Basically the whole point of incarnation is to have the physical experience from multiple different perspectives. You can incarnate as one character then after that you can go and play as another, then as another, then as another, etc. There’s another point too with LGBTQ+ divine counterparts is that sometimes you incarnate as being gay, lesbian, trans, whatever because you LIKE that. You've incarnated as that before and that's your preferred preference when you physically incarnate because you just simply like it. There's no hard and fast rules here. Like I said this is much like a video game, you choose the character that you want to play before you come here. That's what life is about, having those physical experiences in order to gain experience from these unique perspectives, to grow and expand the knowledge of source, the knowledge of the universe, the knowledge from these different perspectives, etc. So if you are feminine leaning you can incarnate into a very masculine body, or if you're the masculine energetically you can incarnate into a very feminine body, you can incarnate as being gay, you can incarnate as being a lesbian, you can incarnate as whatever. I'm being drawn to reiterate that we have both divine masculine and divine feminine energy within all of us on an individual level when we incarnate as souls. So saying that ‘oh, the divine feminine is only going to be a woman’ or ‘the divine masculine is only going to be a man’ is basically a load of shit. 

Purpose of Gay Divine Counterparts

So what I'm being shown right now is a man who is just sad, like a male figure who is sad. I feel a sense of sadness, and I feel like what this is referring to is this aspect of bringing love back to the men. This is because this masculine energy on this planet has been misused in a lot of ways and that has been directly forced upon, or that negativity has been directly forced upon those who physically represent the masculine which would be obviously physical males or men. They're forced into certain roles. They're forced into certain behaviors, forced into maybe even being things that they're not because they have to fit into what society tells them to be. Through that they've lost that connection in a lot of ways to their own hearts.

What this is in terms of gay male divine counterparts coming together is bringing back that love towards that masculine energy and also towards physical men. I want to say this as I'm not pushing anyone to be gay or saying that you should be gay or anything like that. This is only if you are. There's obviously reasons for heterosexual divine counterparts, for lesbian divine counterparts for all of these kinds of things. I do want to mention that sometimes people incarnate as gay because they like to be that specific sexual orientation and they want to have that physical experience again in this lifetime. So just be mindful of that. It's not forcing anyone to be anything; this is for those who are gay and who are divine counterparts.

I'm also being guided towards this aspect of fighting and war, and then being drawn back to this aspect of love. What I get a sense of is this connection is helping to end the fighting and bringing the love back towards men in a lot of ways, again. This is through this very high vibrational positive relationship of two men being together, where it then ripples out and affects things across the world in a lot of ways. Of course, there's multiple gay divine counterparts that are helping to do this kind of thing. So that effect then ripples out towards bringing the love back towards men whether they're gay or not. It's not that you're forcing this gay love upon straight men or something like that. That's not it. It's the effects of caring for each other that ripple out and open the hearts of other people in a lot of ways. So it's ending the fighting and bringing the love back. What I'm also being drawn to is solving things and providing solutions in a more appropriate and loving way and not simply through fighting or arguing or those kinds of things. That doesn't mean that you shouldn't stand up for yourself when necessary, but there are positive and appropriate ways to set boundaries and stand up for yourself that don't involve deep violence and a lot of these negative behaviors. 

There's also the idea of this man-to-man coming together that in a way energetically and physically ‘pushes out’ or causes things to occur. It is like an energetic force, like in electrodynamics.  The best way to understand this is how an electric motor works. In an electric motor you basically have a coil of wire that electricity flows through which then induces a magnetic field within that coil of wire. You then have a normal magnet on a wheel that can move around that coil of wire which reacts to it. So if you have that coil of wire that produces a north pole and then you have a standard magnet that has its north pole pointing at the coils north pole, when they come together they create a force, they repel. It creates this force of energy that then moves this magnet and thus the wheel. It's that force that is created by the same thing coming together that pushes for action. Where two males coming together then creates a similar kind of energy. A similar thing can happen when two females come together to create that movement, that energy going forward to propel and create. What I get a sense of, is because this is in terms of love and bringing more positivity back to the world and how this is propelling and pushing to take action towards things in a more appropriate positive direction, instead of how things have previously been done.

For their purpose in general the word that I'm actually seeing and getting is love, just love, unconditional love, and that love can exist in any way. I feel like this is lifting up outside of these things that are divisive whether it be politics, or whether it be religious beliefs, or whether it be all of these things. You're a living breathing example of that which goes against a lot of what we've been taught to believe. It really shows that love is possible in any way and that it is just that, simply love. 

Now I'm being drawn to the topic of sex here. The image in my mind is quite literally like a makeout session between two men. I get that physical representation but then what I feel now is a sense of going up, this up-leveling of this physical intimacy between men. I feel like this sexual energy in a lot of ways has been misused. I'm being drawn to certain sex clubs or BDSM or that kind of stuff where certain things have maybe been forced upon certain people or victimized people in a sexual way. This is also people that have willingly been victimized because of previous traumas or willingly allowed themselves to be victimized because they then think that that's what they need to do. What I mean by that is it's relating to a trauma instead of what their true desire actually is. What this higher aspect of love through divine counterparts does is it then up-levels this type of sex and sexuality to a different level where it's done in a more appropriate intimate way. It's done with consent, it's done because they want to do it, and not in some negative forced kind of way or abusive way or BDSM kind of way. Yes, I will call out BDSM and that is not an appropriate expression of sexuality. Violence towards another in any kind of intimate form is abuse, in all ways, even if it’s deemed as ‘consensual’, including in BDSM. I will probably ruffle a lot of feathers by saying that but from a spiritual level and a love level, that is not an appropriate form of sexual expression. Divine counterparts are here to elevate that sacred sexual level upwards so that this is done in an extremely passionate and loving way. It's not that you're not going to enjoy it, because you will. I get feelings and sensations as I'm doing this and what I feel is this really strong sense of pleasure from that higher level sexual experience that is much, much more than anything that would be derived from this earthly physical negative, abusive level. 

This is also showing that sex and sexuality is okay. It's okay to express that, it's okay to be that, because we're doing this in a more loving, positive way. It's not an abusive way. Again, it's through this aspect of this elevation that occurs, elevating that energy so that it is now done in a more appropriate way and that it's okay. It's okay to want to express that, to experience that, if you're having consensual sex with a partner in that way. It's okay to have these experiences when it's something that you desire and is meant for you in this way and not something that you're being coerced to do. I'm being drawn to the fact of people being forced into heterosexual relationships or forced to have sex with a woman, and that's actually a form of sexual abuse. Abuse by people and society towards those who are gay. I'm being drawn to the fact that, that is energy that actually needs to be cleared and healed from people as well, which is also part of this up-leveling that I spoke about. That's what I feel like this is relating to, is that you're not being forced into this place of being forced to have sex in a certain way. Whether it’s just to have kids or just whatever to fit into whatever society tells you to be. You need to be doing it because you want to not because you’re forced to. What I'm also getting is to experience that pleasure, to experience that true raw, real intimacy with another person, with another male, I'm speaking with this specifically for gay men. That if people that have that strong desire, that passion, that want that pleasure in that way, they can and that it can be a very positive, loving and amazing experience because of the elevation to that higher level. Also, that it's okay to want and desire that. It's okay to want pleasure, It's okay to have and want to experience that pleasure, especially from that higher more divine level in that way and not something that is forcing you to do something in an abusive way or in a way that really is not meant for you, or what is not naturally felt for you.

Purpose of Lesbian Divine Counterparts

What I get a sense of through my guidance is I'm being reminded of this abuse of women that has happened on this planet and also the abuse of feminine energy. In this way lesbian divine counterparts are two women coming together to truly love and support each other and themselves to bring love back to that feminine/physical female aspect. I'm also getting a hint that in heterosexual divine counterpart relationships it's the masculine/male learning to come back to love the feminine/female in an appropriate way and also vice versa, the feminine/female learning to love the masculine/male for who he is in that appropriate way as well. That's one of the big reasons for this because all of this has been misconstrued through old outdated cultural beliefs and all these things that are extremely negative and have been abused within relationships. All of that is what we're meant to heal by incarnating here and doing this from this high vibrational love space. I'm being reminded now that that's why this can't happen from a traditional relationship standpoint of which we understand on this planet because those things hold those negative experiences, those negative traumas, those acts of abuse, etc. and that's not what this is. Those things cannot exist within such a high vibrational relationship of these two divine counterparts coming together in this way. That is one of the big reasons for this. 

The next thing that I'm getting is in a sexual sense, in elevating that sexual energy to a higher level. I talked about this when I talked about gay divine counterparts, but it's the same thing. It's an elevation of that sexual energy up to a higher level so it's not done in an abusive way. It's elevated to true intimacy, pleasure, etc. Of course, specifically for lesbian twin flames this is between two women. It's also that you can do it to enjoy that true intimacy, that true time of pleasure between two women, two people of the same gender/same sex as well and ultimately it's women loving and supporting women. I get this very supportive energy that this divine feminine energy is very strong in that coming together you can help and stand up for each other because you know how strong you truly are. You know how strong this energy is because divine masculine divine feminine energy are in fact equal. They're just different, they do things in different ways but they are equally just as strong, they're just different. Different doesn't mean better or less than different just means different.

Purpose of Transgender Divine Counterparts

What I get a sense of is this very flowing unconditional love regardless of how you express it, regardless of what your gender is, sexual orientation, that kind of thing. It's very fluid, I get the sense of fluidity with this in terms of transgender divine counterparts, and that it's understanding that there's this fluidity that exists to sex and sexuality and that this love can exist in any way. That this love expresses in any way, it doesn't necessarily matter what genitals you have or what you are or who you express as, your gender expression, any of that. I just get this very fluid feeling that love just exists, it doesn't matter what the other person looks like, what their gender is, what their gender expression is or what's between their legs or any of that, it's just this very fluid flowing aspect of energy that is coming through here. Another thing that I'm sensing is this sense of elevating to a higher level. Obviously transgender people have gone through a lot of abuse, a lot of negativity and a lot of hatred on this planet and it's elevating that type of fluidity, that type of love or that transgenderness up to a higher level. Elevating that up, bringing it up ultimately healing it in bringing it to that higher love, higher vibrational level and elevating it in that way to ultimately get rid of the abuse. That intimacy can now be had in those instances from that higher level of sensuality of pleasure, of enjoyment, of true ultimate intimacy and coming together in that way. Of course this goes along with the other things that I've said before with lesbian and gay divine counterparts in elevating that sexual energy. What I get a sense with this is that very fluid energy in understanding that love exists in all things and throughout all those aspects of expression and that fluid aspect of expression.

Purpose of Bisexual Divine Counterparts

When I tune in I get this aspect of loving another no matter what their difference is. The example that I'm being given is maybe one of the divine counterparts is a male, like a typical cisgender male, but he is attracted to (I'm going to include pansexual in this as well so bisexual/pansexual) both men and women and transgender. It's this aspect of, it doesn't matter who you are, even though I'm in this traditional male body, this masculine man, it doesn't matter who I love. I just love you for who you are no matter what that is, whether you're transgender, whether you're a man, whether you're a woman, whether you have a different or fluid gender expression, whatever, it doesn't matter. This in a way is slightly different from transgender in that I get the sense of this aspect of just loving the other person as they are no matter what. With the transgender portion of this I got this very fluid aspect where it's almost changeable in a sense but with this it's I just love you for who you are no matter what. 

I am being reminded of the main reason for this differentiation for divine counterparts is to elevate these distinctions specifically because as humans we like to categorize things. This is to specifically elevate that bisexual aspect, elevate that sexuality to that higher level, to heal the abuse and all the negative things that have happened in those kinds of relationships and level it up. There is also this aspect of just loving you for who you are no matter what and again that splits into that aspect of being pansexual as well.

Basically what all of this is, is bringing the love back to a lot of these things because a lot of this stuff has been abused, there's a lot of negative things that have happened here as well as hatred towards these ways of expressing. So this is elevating and is healing that and lifting it up to a much higher level. 

I'm being reminded that divine counterparts volunteer to come here to help with this because we know and understand these things because we've done this before. We have experience with these kinds of things, we know and understand how things actually, really truly do exist on a higher level from a loving plane and that what has happened on this planet and the humans here have been dealt a very bad hand. This is trying to help you to get yourselves out of it, to get you all lifted up to the same level and to heal a lot of these things, and to get rid of these old patterns and dynamics that were basically forced upon you. These old patterns that are in essence not really actually you, or who you are as a humanity. This gives you a second chance, to help you to elevate and understand things for what they truly are and truly can be, and to experience this love and true intimacy and all those kinds of things from a much higher level.

What is the Third Energy? What is it meant for? 

A lot of people talk about divine counterparts or twin flames being able to create the third energy and yes, this is through sex, through the point of orgasm during sex where that merge occurs. Because you are both the same frequency and when you're quantumly entangled with that high vibrational unconditional love energy, when you have that orgasm and that merging that occurs it’s just like boom! It generates that love energy outward, it basically creates love, it expresses it out almost like an atomic explosion but in a very positive way of pure unconditional love energy. That love energy is what is needed here to combat the negative energy that has existed on this level. So in essence the third energy is just simply love, high vibrational unconditional love energy.

What I'm being reminded of is that we're basically suspended from that higher level of 5D into this 3D physical reality and as we have these experiences in 3D or have this sexual experience in 3D and that love is then broadcast from that higher level through us, through to this level to obliterate all the negativity in its path. All that's left then is this love, this true unconditional love in its place. True intimacy, true love and true sacred sexual energy is extremely powerful and extremely positive and loving. That has been misused, misconstrued and ultimately abused on this planet and that is what divine counterparts are here to fix in that way. It doesn't matter what your sexual orientation, your gender or your gender expression is. Your coming together and having that divine sacred sexual high level experience, that orgasmic experience then creates that third energy regardless of what your physical gender is, remember this is just the character that you chose to play in this lifetime, it's really not who you truly are at a higher level.

What is Separation and Why is it Necessary?

I talked about before when you have this awakening process, initially you awaken and then you begin to heal. So there's a lot of things that have been taken care of from previous incarnations on this planet where you learned how to live on earth, how to understand what was going on, and you had human souls actually help you to understand how to survive here. You needed to have this insider information in order to understand how you're going to help, how you're going to heal, etc. This whole mission, this whole process has been very long and drawn out and you've had multiple lifetimes to prepare for this point in which you're here for the main mission. Separation is basically the final healing process. You've had all these lifetimes of understanding, you've had this awakening in this lifetime to understand who you are, what you're meant to do, the whole purpose of all of these things and now you begin this higher level aspect of healing not only yourself but also your divine counterparts stuff as well. This is to get them ready and awakened for this process too. 

I'm being drawn to say that, yes, technically you could just come together but because of what we've been taught to understand about relationship dynamics on this planet you would try to have that relationship in the old way. It just wouldn't work because it would clash so much with the higher vibrational love or the true relationship of who you are that is trying to come through. If that happened you might end up falling into old traumatic patterns or abusive patterns or something and you just end up hurting the other individual that would then require more healing and then adjusting. What's easier is to just heal all of this stuff out initially first, get you to understand what it is you’re here for, awaken you, heal all this crap, heal all these old relationship dynamics and traumas, etc. You don't have to be fully 100% healed to come together but you have to be to a point where the relationship is more sustainable and you're not going to hurt each other or fall back into old patterns. When you do come together you can then finish the healing process of course in a much more powerful way because you’ve healed so much on your own already. You're then able to express in that true higher level unconditional love type of space that you are meant to and not in old paradigm relationship dynamics. 

This is also why I'd like to point out that my guidance has been that this aspect of running and chasing is just bullshit. It's people trying to apply traditional old paradigm relationship dynamics to this and saying ‘oh, well one is running, one is chasing’. Where this actually comes from is people thinking that the person that they've met is their divine counterpart and they're applying that label when that's not at all what that is. That other person is running away from you because you're being a fucking weirdo, you're coming off as crazy or delusional in some way and you're trying to force them into this relationship because you’re believing it’s something it’s not. If this really is for you, any kind of meeting will be divinely guided and orchestrated by both of your higher selves to occur naturally and you’re not going to have to go after them saying ‘oh you’re my twin flame’ or anything like that. You will be at a point where it can happen, until then the process still needs to unfold. I'm being drawn to the fact that this is almost like that old school aspect of courting someone where you keep trying to buy them gifts or you keep doing all of these sweet things to basically manipulate them into being your partner or into loving you. Now courting is not necessarily a bad thing if you both actually like each other and you both admit that you like each other and you're saying you want to take it slow and just get to know each other more, where you’re not really official but courting. It’s just in this example you both agree it's not the kind of courting where it's only one-sided or unrequited love where you're going in there and you're trying to force this on to the other person. That is messed up and not okay. 

What I'm being guided to now again to reiterate for real divine counterparts, when the time is ready for you to actually come together physically it is going to be divinely orchestrated by your own higher selves and happen naturally in your day-to-day life. You will be ready for it. There is no running and chasing; there is only this aspect of awakening, healing, understanding and the appropriate divine timing that needs to occur to bring things properly into place. Remember, there's a lot that we don't understand from this physical level, from our human mind level, that our higher selves understand from that higher level of what needs to occur, what can happen, what needs to be dealt with still before all of this stuff can happen and come together.

Age Gaps, Closeting & Complicated Circumstances

Age gaps do not always exist. There are some divine counterparts that, yes, will have larger age gaps. Why? Because again it's to bring love back into that space. There have been people that have misused power dynamics such as, what I'm being guided to, is like a boss and employee type of relationship. Where the boss manipulates the employee to be in a romantic relationship and says ‘oh you need to give me sexual favors if you want a promotion’ type of thing. It's that kind of a power dynamic but of course people do that in terms of an age gap where they take advantage of someone's naivety because they're younger and they manipulate them and take advantage of them. Or they have this desire for that youthful beauty and so they manipulate people into some sick sexual fantasy or negative things like that. Whereas what this is doing for divine counterparts when they come into this because of that true divine unconditional love that exists between them it's to basically heal those aspects of abuse and that negativity because the relationship that divine counterparts will have is that they actually truly love each other. 

What I'm being guided to say is that, yes, age gap relationships do exist that are loving. However that type of relationship dynamic has been misused and abused on this planet in a very negative way to take advantage, cause traumas or whatever. What divine counterparts are doing is we're healing that. So, yes you can have age gap relationships there is nothing wrong with that and I'm talking obviously about people who are of age to be able to have these types of relationships of course. I'm not talking anything to do with any kind of a relationship with with a child or children or anything like that, that is fucked up and disgusting do not even go there and do not even use this as an excuse for that, that's not what I'm talking about here at all. I'm talking about people who are of consenting age who have this kind of age gap relationship large or small (in terms of the age gap). Those relationships can be actual loving relationships for people who genuinely care about each other and just want to be together. Those can and do exist. Some divine counterparts, not all, do have age gap relationships, they are here to heal those aspects and show that yes true unconditional love can exist within the space and to elevate that again to that higher level to lift it up and heal it.

Now in terms of closeting. What I'm being reminded of is that divine counterpart relationships are not going to be a DL (on the down low) type of relationship or a hidden type of a relationship. You need to fully be and express who you are and love yourself for who you are to truly love the other as they are as well. So you both cannot be closeted and/or you can't have it where one is out and one is closeted. You both have to be open, you both have to come out. Again I'm being reminded that this is part of that separation phase or that healing phase that if one of you is still closeted due to fears or due to whatever else, that there's going to be certain healings that are going to occur that are going to heal those dynamics. You will get out of certain situations where maybe you're stuck in certain things. So your divine counterpart will feel certain things to express or to be guided in certain ways to be able to truly be themselves and express themselves and have the confidence to be themselves and to express themselves through that higher level healing process. In this way you can come together and truly express that true unconditional love for each other. Remember this is about expressing that true unconditional love for each other and through that expression lifting everything up energetically to those much higher levels. So you can't be in the closet to have this kind of a relationship. 

If it's just one of you or the awakened one of you that is out, then through what the awakened one does and through the healing process it will help the other one to then start to heal that and come out and be able to express themselves. Remember that quantum entanglement thing? You feel each other, so what you do affects the other and vice versa, this is how you can affect that process with them, even just as simply by being you. In more difficult situations your higher self isn't going to give up on you if something fails or something doesn't work, you're going to try and try again. It's like the GPS just rerouting if you miss your turn, you just take a different path to make it happen.

Now, complicated circumstances. One of the biggest things in this area is being stuck in marriages, either one or both of you. This could be a marriage with a soulmate or some type of karmic relationship or you've been forced into a marriage by your family or something like that. Once this awakening occurs with one of you, your higher selves will find a way out of that for you and it will happen naturally. This isn't something that usually will just be abrupt or negative with arguments. Sometimes, depending on the difficulty of the situation, there may be certain aspects of which, yes, things may end abruptly or be abrupt or there may be certain instances in which some of that stuff happens but it's going to be limited. Your higher selves are going to try to limit the amount of that as much as possible and try to do this from the best possible way from the highest level possible. There may be times where you may just feel like talking to your marriage partner and be like ‘look I need to have this conversation, this isn't working’ and they were already going to come to you asking for a divorce. There could also be some other mutual conversation where that comes up or they come to you first and say like ‘look this isn’t working, we're done’. Sometimes other people may be guided to say something to the other person or whatever to help to move things along to end certain things or whatever. However it will be guided and supported by your higher selves. 

Let's say if something has to end badly for whatever reason, once that is finished and done your higher selves will then heal things and arrange things so that it doesn't stick with you later on in your life. There may be periods of time where you do have to distance yourself from your ex but then you'll still be able to talk to them later on once things have smoothed over or have been worked on from a higher level, especially if there's kids involved. You will be able to deal with this stuff on a much higher vibrational level and it's not going to feel like such a negative thing.  Things will work out in an appropriate and positive way or they'll be divinely guided in that way or designed to work out in that way from a much higher level to then enact that physically within this reality.